Celebrating the Life of Irena Peritz: A Legacy of Love and Resilience

Irena Peritz, a Holocaust survivor and beloved matriarch, passed away at the age of 98 last week, leaving behind a legacy of warmth, resilience, and boundless curiosity. Her son-in-law, Josh Freed, reflected on her extraordinary life, which began amidst harrowing circumstances during World War II in Poland.

Born into a turbulent era, Irena survived the Holocaust by evading the Nazis with her family from ages 11 to 16. She often recounted a harrowing episode where she and her mother hid in a hayloft, listening to the Gestapo search for Jews. Many members of her family perished during this dark time, yet Irena’s spirit remained unbroken. Upon her liberation, she wrote in her wartime diary: “I have nothing, but I have everything — my life.” These words encapsulated her relentless optimism and her ability to find joy in the simplest aspects of life.

In a poignant eulogy, her daughter Ingrid described her mother as someone who emerged from the darkness to embrace “a life of light and hope.” Irena’s appreciation for life was evident in her interactions, which left a lasting impression on everyone she met. Nina, Josh’s sister-in-law, noted how Irena made friends effortlessly, participating in activities such as summer hiking, tai chi, and choir well into her 80s.

Her vitality was not just a personal hallmark; it inspired younger generations, especially during her hiking excursions, where younger hikers often stepped aside to acknowledge her presence. “That’s nothing,” Irena quipped, humorously recalling how “the whole bus stands up” for her when she boards.

In the community, Irena was known for her unofficial office, a bench in Westmount Park, where locals dropped by for advice or simply to share a conversation. Her ability to listen deeply and ask thoughtful questions made her a cherished confidante.

Irena was also a central figure in the weekly tennis games among her son-in-law and his friends. Despite her busy schedule as a bingo caller at her seniors’ residence, she remained a steadfast participant in these gatherings. If she was absent, the group would inevitably ask, “Where’s Irena?” Her presence was so integral that her tennis buddy, Richard, remarked, “Without Irena, the Wednesday game is going to lose some of its sparkle.”

Despite her popularity, Irena remained humble and often questioned why she attracted such affection. She told Josh, “I never went to college; I’m not that smart or interesting. Why me?” Her impact, however, stemmed not from academic accolades but from a profound understanding of life and human connection.

As Josh Freed poignantly noted, “She had a PhD in life and a professorship in the human heart.” This profound insight resonated with all who knew her. Irena Peritz’s life serves as a reminder that even from the deepest darkness, one can emerge into light, inspiring others along the way. Her absence will be deeply felt, particularly during those cherished Wednesday tennis nights, where an empty bench will forever remind her friends of her indelible spirit.